After talking with a new, gay male client, I have been wondering the following:
Would you rather have meaningless casual $&@ with strangers and get chlamydia…. or… would you rather drink with your friends, come home, smoke some $&@$, and take a hot bath?
Tonight, my double shot motivational moment is would you rather. Would you rather gain or loose? Would you rather risk or wonder? Would you rather care or not care?
Consider the example above…
Imagine your own…
What would you rather?
Sometimes life comes down to this level of frankness. Sometimes we have to boldly identify replacement behaviors so that we can move on and really change!
So ask yourself. What would you rather?
Peace and love,